Hey Robin...funny reading this since it seems you and I have not talked for a long time as well. Its hard tho, people change and whatnot and you can't help but wonder if its you or the other people who wont talk or call, the closest ppl from high school who won't IM you, just to even say hi. I know I try to keep up realtionships that way and I can't hlep but think that I am not the wanted friend anymore when they don't refund the "favor". So, I try keeping things as they were and accept that maybe not everyone lasts forever.
Therefore, I say, treasure what you are gaining, and what was. Those memories and good times are not erased ever. Sad as it is, I guess its always time to move on and develop more. Real true friends last, others were just there at the right time. Sounds harsh, but i like to think of friends accumulating..ones from grade/middle school..high school...college..and thereafter. BE thankful for knowing so many people, even if its only for a short time.
Cya soon, Jil